why build our own house?
Sex-positive and kink educators regularly have to navigate platforms that were never built with our work in mind.
Words, images, educational material, memberships, and even the way we communicate with our communities can fall into gray areas or restrictions.
I do not want the future of this work, or your access to it, dependent on whether another platform suddenly decides our education does not belong there.
So I am moving toward a digital ecosystem that I have greater ownership and control over, while continuing to follow the laws, payment requirements, hosting policies, and protections necessary to keep the community safe.
This expansion gives the Queendom a stronger foundation.
What is the Velvet House?
Imagine walking through one digital door…
THE LIBRARY
Educational videos, audio practices, teachings, exercises, and resources organized by the things you actually want to explore.
THE PRIVATE COMMUNITY
A space for kinksters, the curious, submissives, dominants, lovers, students, and those simply peeking behind the curtain.
ANONYMOUS OR SEEN
Some of you want to quietly observe. Others want to create a profile, share photos, introduce yourselves, and be discovered. The vision makes room for both.
THE EVENT BOARD
Find events, gatherings, classes, and experiences I recommend or host.
THE QUEEN’S CHAMBERS
A more organized place for my videos, teachings, stories, and the content you cannot always experience with me in person.
THE SCHOOL
Eventually, my programs, exercises, homework, recordings, and educational journeys can live together instead of being scattered across different websites and platforms.
Our StoryThe Queendom is growing. Now it needs a home built to hold it.
For years, I have been creating experiences, courses, videos, conversations, events, and spaces where adults can explore kink, power, intimacy, communication, and the parts of themselves they are often told to keep hidden.
The work has grown.
Now the systems holding it need to grow with it.
I am raising $31,2000 for Phase One of the Velvet House
a redesigned digital home and private community that can better protect, organize, and expand this work.
phase 2 for the in person Hacienda